Book 17. Just giving something to the person who is obsessing should be enough to end the obsession.

 Hello. You're welcome. I'm Watanabe Ten. Nice to meet you.

The theme of this article is self-improvement. I know that self-improvement is a powerful stimulant and a powerful miracle drug that can teach you many lessons.

There are many lessons to be learned, and my greatest interest is how to extract lessons from history. The lives of historical figures are passed down to future generations, remaining in the memories of many people and inspiring them. Even self-improvement has taught us many lessons.

I'm sure many readers have read various self-improvement textbooks. Self-improvement includes business books, but they are written as a methodology for social success. Are you making money?

How to behave in order to be successful in society is a very interesting topic, and one that many people are likely to be interested in.

I am currently writing a blog, and this blog itself has a strong self-improvement nature, and can be described as a strategy blog for life. I pray every day that it will become a miracle cure for life. I think human relationships are interesting things.

Just giving someone one thing can make a big difference in how they perceive you. It's interesting, isn't it? However, human relationships are complicated, and when multiple people get together, politics naturally arises. It's a struggle for power.

I believe that self-development is a prescription for improving these human relationships and organizational relationships in society. I understand that we are living in a moment that could be called the Sword of Damocles, just like many historical figures.

The Sword of Damocles means that the person on the throne has a sword hanging above their head by a single thread from the ceiling.

What interests me most at the moment is attachment in human relationships. We become attached to others because relationships are one-sided. Even if one person sees benefits in the other, if the other person does not, the relationship becomes an attachment.

If someone is obsessed with you and you want to break that obsession, I think you need to show them kindness. It's important to have a good discussion and not be harsh. If you show kindness to the other person, what was once an obsessive relationship will naturally turn into an equal relationship. There is a high possibility that it will become a cooperative relationship.

Find benefits for the other person. The world is not driven by profit and loss. Win-win relationships are easy to build cooperative relationships with, but it's easy to imagine how difficult it is to build cooperative relationships when one party has a lot and the other has nothing.

I believe that many historical figures also achieved great things through their many possessions and relationships with many people. Some of them are true heroes to me, and without those relationships they would not have been able to achieve great things.

I believe that self-improvement is a universal technique for humanity that incorporates the wisdom of our ancestors. When you hear the term "self-improvement," some of you might think, "Oh, that's some kind of high-minded thing."

However, just as there are things to learn from great historical figures, there must be many people who are conscious of their predecessors in society. When I look at history textbooks or other textbooks, I think about how I can extract knowledge as lessons.

There are many reference books and textbooks out there, but it's important to learn from history. Giving something to the person who is obsessing you should be able to end the obsession. Self-improvement. It's a deep subject, but even a little insight into it could change your life.

Learn from history. Learn from textbooks. If you're going to read a book, you want to gain something important from it. That's all. Thank you for your growth. This was Watanabe Ten.